2018 as I Remember It

Hooray! We made it. Take a moment and pat yourself on the back, You survived 2018. It was a tumultuous year with the usual highs and lows of first birthdays and final days. There were some serious weather events across the globe that impacted family and friends. All that is behind us now.

My personal 2018 included watching my son Matthew graduate high school, 3 job changes including 2 promotions, and an amazing trip to San Francisco.
In February, I changed jobs, leaving the voice Care program, I joined the web sales chat program. The biggest challenge for me was convincing strangers that I am Jessica. March marked Rachel’s 23rd birthday and I got an iPhone X, and I fished at Lake West Point in a canoe. April started with Easter, Passover, and April Fools all at once. I managed to put together a trampoline for Levi.
June came and I travelled to Virginia to witness my son Matthew graduate high school. I also got to spend some quality time with my daughter Rachel and her bunny, Herbie. In July I took on a new role as a member of Offline Support. I followed the metrics and the learning curve of the agents and their coaches. September started with my 52nd birthday and finished with a fantastic trip to Napa Valley and San Francisco. Visited wine country and toured a few vineyards including a real life castle at Castello di Amorosa Winery, and Robert Mondavi Tokalon Vineyard. Spent a day touring the plant at Jelly Belly Candy Company which included a wine tasting paired with chocolates. In San Francisco, I managed to walk (with cane) up and down the hills of Chinatown, most of Alcatraz Island, and Pier 39. October included Matthew’s 19th birthday and my Red Sox won the World Series.  In November I decided to move into the role of Coach. I was given a team of new sales chat agents. This meant I could help them find the right behaviors needed to succeed, and that alone made me excited. Business was crazy busy from Thanksgiving thru Cyber Monday I am looking forward to what they will accomplish in 2019. December was all about the holidays, both at work and at home. At work, business was crazy busy right up until the 22nd. At home, lots of cooking and wrapping culminated into smiles from kids and adults, near and far on Christmas morning. Now its New Year’s Eve day, and I am writing this so I can remind myself what I did in 2018. I’m excited to get 2019 started and hope it brings joy to you all! Thanks for reading and feel free to comment.

Happy New Year and Love and Light to you all!!!

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when a reunion is without photographs

I finally made it back to Massachusetts. I saw cousins from three generations. As I was sitting with them, I started to think as we are getting older, who wouldn't I see again? I have my own opinion of which I will keep to myself, but the opportunty to capture the moments was not appropriate. I was there for a funeral. One does not take pictures, let alone ask people to pose. So although I shared a trip down memory lane. I have nothing but the images in my head to take with me. The stories and the hugs and the smiles and the tears will forever be in my mind's eye. If you were there, and we spoke or laughed together, thank you. If we hugged it out and wept, thank you. These are the gifts of the last 24 hours. I will smile each time I recall the long day spent in Massachusetts. Love and Light!

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Not a new year resolution...

What if you could really just call a "do-over" on the past year? Hey, I know some may think, "that would be awesome" while others would say, "that is absurd!" Although there are some things I may have done differently and there were some missed opportunities along the way, I know, at least for me, that I had to experience every one of them to get right here right now. I am not one to acknowledge regret, but if I were to do so, I regret not doing a better job to stay in touch with my family and friends. I have all the technology to do so, but I seem to get side tracked quite a bit. 

Here's a few things I can look back at 2014 with a smile:

My son, Matthew, started high school. My daughter, Rachel, drove to Myrtle Beach this summer for our family visit. Levi Stone Robertson was born. I added Hawaii to my list of states visited. I started taking classes online towards my Bachelors degree. So far, I have an "A" average. 

2015 will be what we make it. I will not put any pressure on myself with a grandiose resolution that would probably look good on paper but would nose dive rapidly in the unforgiving seas. 

I offer this instead:

I will continue to be me. My thirst for better will not stop. I will read more. I will strive to communicate more often with my family and friends. I mean actually communicate, not just "Like" a post on Facebook. I will remind myself daily that each person around me is necessary, even if I don't yet know why. I will work on my patience of others. I hope that my presence brings value and a good excuse to smile to those that I interact with.

Happy New Year to all of my friends and family and anyone else that may read this... I hope all of you make the coming year your greatest! Love and Light!

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Seasons Greetings 2014

I want to make sure this does not come across as an insensitive rant about the meaning of the season to anyone. I have been paying attention to the various comments blasting social media and I have noticed an imbalance in the acceptance of others' traditions and beliefs. 

For example, there have been many posts defending the right to say "Merry Christmas" instead of "Happy Holidays." I wish more people would just say what it is that they want to say and not have to feel it needs defending. Part of the problem, in my humble opinion, is too many people believe that saying "Happy Holidays" is a negative greeting. To be fair, any phrase that starts with "happy" shouldn't be viewed negatively. 

The month of December has several holidays within the month. Hanukkah is eight days in length that falls in the calendar somewhere within the month and has been celebrated for more than five thousand years. Christmas is always on the 25th and has been celebrated for a little more than two thousand years. Kwanzaa starts on the 26th and lasts until January 1st and it has been celebrated for almost fifty years. And, even though it starts at midnight of January 1st, we traditionally have included New Years Eve and New Years Day, which have been going on for more than two thousand years. 

If you celebrate any of these or none of these, you are not any less American. That is what is supposed to separate us from the rest of the world. It is in that view that I wish it would just be accepted when someone says "Seasons Greetings" or "Happy Holidays," without having to worry that someone will be upset or feel slighted. 

The reason of your celebration is important to you. Remember, it is important to everyone, for their reason, even if that reason is not the same as yours.

I saw this post back in November on Facebook and I have not been able to find its origin, but I believe in its message and that's why I am sharing it here:

To my friends and family all over the world:

For the last eight days I made it a point to share a photo posted from one of my cousins, Rivkah Hamer. She displayed many menorahs with the appropriate candles lit each night. "Happy Hanukkah!"

To my friends and family all over the world:

Today is December 24th. It is Christmas Eve. Tomorrow is Christmas Day. The next twenty-four hours have meaning to many. They deserve to have and share it without feeling guilty for expressing it. "Merry Christmas!"

To my friends and family all over the world:

On Friday the 26th, a holiday I know very little about, but I know it's important to those that include it in their culture. "Joyous Kwanzaa!" 

In the spirit of the season to all of you,

Love and Light

Thank you.

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thanksgivings

This time of year it is a custom to share what we are grateful for. I could easily just say thanks for my health, my family, my friends, having a job, being loved, etc... All of which I am truly thankful for. 

This year I wish to thank Vint Cerf and Robert E Kahn (for bringing us the Internet), Steve Jobs (for the innovative iDevices), and Mark Zuckerberg (for Facebook). These guys, along with the many developers of the apps that make social media accessible, make communication seamless and common place. So, it is for them that I am thankful for. They make it possible for me to stay in touch with all my family and friends no matter how far away they may be. 

I recently started classes towards finishing my bachelors degree. So I would also like to recognize teachers. Without teachers, none of the afore mentioned would have been able to accomplish their achievements. Moreover, teachers make it possible for society to appreciate these innovations. 

To all the teachers of my past and the ones in my future, thank you for pushing me to succeed. 

Happy thanksgiving to all! If you can read this, take a moment and thank a teacher!

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My TGIF Experience

We hear it all the time. "Thank goodness  it's Friday!" I know some people substitute their religious higher power, but I am not writing this about that. This is what "TGIF" meant for me today. 

First, it started with knowing I wasn't going to work. I made a plan to do the things I don't often have time for any other day of the week. Let me first say it's all possible because, even though it is the week before Thanksgiving, today had an abundance of sunshine and a temperature that hovered above 60 degrees by 10:30 this morning. Definitely a pro to living in South Georgia. I had it all planned out. I packed a couple of cigars, a couple packs of peanut butter crackers, my iPad, and a charger. 

I grabbed my helmet and jacket, along with my gloves, and went outside. My motorcycle has been under cover, so I removed the cover and unplugged the trickle charger I use to keep the battery ready. The StreetBob cranked with one try. I backed out of the driveway and headed out. 

Usually I don't have a destination in mind, but today I knew exactly where I wanted to go. I maneuvered through the neighborhood and got on the highway heading south. I took the exit I take twice a week to get  to the country. I rode until I made it to Plains, Georgia and pulled into the Welcome Center on route 280, about 3 miles past Jimmy Carter's compound. I parked, applied the kickstand, and shut off the bike. 

I unpacked my iPad, my hat, and my cigars and found a nice stone bench that sits right near the pond. The geese were sunbathing on the far side of the pond. I sat down and lit a cigar. Once I was confident it was properly lit, I opened the cover to my iPad and tapped on my kindle app.

I sat for about an hour reading and smoking while life was going on around me. I finished the page I was on and took the cigar to the nub and then put it out.

I noticed the geese were now on the same side of the pond with me. I took the opportunity to go inside the welcome center and make a pit stop.

Then I went to sit at a picnic table drenched with sunshine and snacked on my peanut butter crackers. Then I lit a second cigar. 

I opened my iPad and continued reading. Time passed more quickly than I thought. I hurried to get everything packed up because I needed to head home. All packed and ready, I started the Harley and rode out to the main road. I noticed the bike was almost out of gas. I stopped and got fuel in Preston. The tank really was close to empty because I put 3.7 gallons in what I thought was a 3.5 gallon tank. Anyway, that finished I was on my way home.

I got home and parked the bike. I went inside and was greeted by Levi. He makes Friday afternoon exciting and always entertaining. We played  and sang and made all kinds of strange noises. We watched television until he got tired.

 I gave him his bottle and he finished it and then he took a nap.

When he woke from his nap I had most of this story typed. This was my "TGIF" experience, today.

I hope yours was as enjoyable as mine.

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Laura's Epic Birthday Dinner also known as "A Chef's Epic Tale"

Thursday, October 17, 2013 dinner for two at 8:30 at the Chef's Table!

We arrived about 10 minutes before our table was ready so the hostess offered us two seats at the bar. Just as we sat down we were greeted by our previous waiter, Jay. He informed us that the table was almost ready. We ordered drinks...

Laura ordered "The Secret Life of Bees" made with Honeysuckle Vodka, Wildflower Georgia Honey, and Peach Bitters. And I ordered "Doctor Jekyll and Mr. Hyde" which I had last time we were here.

Just a few minutes after, we were ushered into the kitchen. You may recall our last visit to Epic included a visit to this kitchen. But this night, it was set up much differently. The table was set for two and the seats faced the main stovetops, the prep counters, and the expediter, Chef Kevin Moore. Jay left and we were introduced to J.R. who would be our waiter for the evening. And if all of what we were being treated to wasn't enough Chef and Owner Jamie Keating was there too.

So we got settled into our seats for the evening and then J.R. informed us of the agenda for the evening. "No need to write anything down, we have already printed your menus for you to take home. Just relax and enjoy the experience and feel free to ask any questions to any of the chefs throughout the evening." 

Jamie Keating came over to introduce himself and gave us a brief history of the premise of his establishment and his hope that it will inspire other investors and chefs to want to bring their creations to Columbus as well.

The meal was presented with each course represented as a part of a novel.

The Preface: An Epic Slider - wagyu beef, foie gras, black garlic aioli, quail egg, and shaved truffles was presented by Chef Moore. He explained it as having some of the best ingredients from the kitchen married together for the perfect bite. And it was just that. The combination created a wonderfull flavor and the texture was light and airy so it was easily enjoyed all at once.

The Introduction: Shigoku Oysters, Pink Pepperoncini Tapioca and Sauce Bavaroise was presented by Chef Caleb Fischer. The detail of the dish can't be described as well here, but trust me when I say that if you have never enjoyed an oyster this way before then you have yet to have the perfect oyster served to you.

Jamie came by to share a story with us about the silverware. Well, actually it was about all the details of the kitchen, the silverware, the plates, etc... But the story about how they chose the silverware showed how much he loves being a father and a husband, as well as being an incredible chef. The picture of the oyster that I chose shows a small spork on my plate. It was because of this spork that this flatware was selected. It seems that was the piece that was missing from all the other flatware they looked at and one of Jamie's children insisted it was needed. I agree. This spork made retreiving the oyster and its additions possible with a single pass, allowing me to appreciate the flavors marrying in my mouth without leaving anything behind.

Chapter I: Barbeque Squab, Georgia Peaches, Root Vegetables and Micro Greens were presented by Chef Fischer. The squab was prepared two ways which included confit of the leg. The vegetables were the perfect doneness and the greens made the whole plate come together texturally.

Chapter II: Arugula and Citrus Salad, Scallops, Tomato Sabayon and Olive Oil Spheres were placed in front of us with the plate placed in a specific direction by Matthew Adams, giving us the perfect view of its contents.

Chapter III: Sweet Corn Agnolotti, Braised Lamb Shank, Toasted Pine Nuts, Smoked Mushrooms and Brown Butter were introduced to us by Chef Fischer. At this point, Laura and I thought this was the main course since it had protein and vegetable and we had just finished a course that had greens in it like a salad.

Then Chef Jefferson Coreno brought our next plate. He referred to it as the Intermezzo and from his explanation of the plate, we gathered this course was supposed to cleanse our palates before our main course would be served. Laura and I looked at each other almost scared. Up to this point, we weren't counting the courses so we didn't realize how many we already had or what was left. It was all so incredible tasting that we were just emmersed in the experience.

Intermezzo: Sour Cherry Sorbet, Grape and Lime Spheres was the chosen palate cleanser for this evening. This chapter was presented with some assistance from Chef Keating and Matthew Adams. No video allowed, so I took a few pictures to do my best to depict what we were so privileged to witness.

For this next course Chef Jefferson made the sorbet right at our table. This kitchen takes advantage of the technological advances brought to the culinary world. 

Matthew Adams picked up what reminded me of an old stainless steel milk jug, but it was smoking.

I think it was dry ice, or at least something like it. Within minutes, the soupy sour cherry concoction that Chef Coreno  was whipping started to solidify.  

His movements were met with more and more resistance. And Matthew Adams continued to pour.

All this work was realized when the scoops were drawn and placed on our plates to complete our dish.

The sphere of grape and lime was a science of molecular construction I have no idea how it came to be even though it was explained. I should mention by this point I had had the Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde cocktail, a glass of Roncier Chardonnay, and a glass of Banfi Chianti so a lot of what was said unfortunately I have already forgotten the details.

Chapter IV: Iberico Wrapped Wild Boar Tenderloin, Braised Beef Short Rib, Roasted Apple and Fennel Risotto would be the main course and as if everything before it wasn't already delicious, this next course was nothing short of amazing. Chef Fischer presented the course along with Eric Moody's assistance.

The team assembled to discuss the next course as well as the other meals throughout the restaurant. I kept forgetting there were other customers in the dining room. 

Then the kitchen staff and the chefs and J.R. started turning out each of the lights, one by one...

Epilogue: A Study of Peanut Butter and Chocolate was placed in front of us by Chef Coreno but that would not be why all the lights were being turned off...

This was a celebration of Laura's birthday and Epic made sure she would never forget it...

And as if that wasn't enough, they insisted on presenting us a play on S'mores, a rewrite of a previous dessert I had at our last visit. And I must say they definitely made what I thought was great, even way better! The marshmallow, chocolate, and graham cracker crust are all held together with a single skewer much like you would use to roast a marshmallow at a campfire. And the scoops on top are the chefs' own creation of graham cracker ice cream. Simply delicious. 

I finished the meal with a hot coffee which was presented with a tray of sugars which included a stick of rock candy, a few pieces of chunky brown sugar, and some of the more normal sugar substitutes. But of course I put nothing in my coffee but a little cream.

The story completed and the unfinished plates, mostly Laura's, packed for travel, we were getting ready to leave. Jamie came back over I assumed to get some feedback of our evening, but actually he just talked about cooking and teaching and how each position in his kitchen is extremely important to his operation. The dish washer needs to aspire to make the dishes clean and be organized so everything is done in the right order and put back in its perfect location in the kitchen. He offered to respond to questions via email that I may have about cooking or preparing a particular meal. He went so far as to invite me to come and try to learn some basic skills in his kitchen. At least I think that happened. I hope it happened because that would be amazing.

Anyway, in our bag of left-overs we found the menus we were told about when we began the night. 

Thank you Chef Jamie Keating et al! You truly made the night magical for Laura and me. I can't wait until our next excuse for an Epic experience.

Please feel free to comment and provide feedback. I hope every foodie in or near Columbus gets an opportunity to have that experience.

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